I first heard about Scot McKay when he was interviewed by David DeAngelo for his Interviews With Dating Gurus CD series.

My first reaction after listening to the interview was, THIS guy sounds DIFFERENT from the typical Seduction Community pickup artists and dating guru types.

Scot not only revealed a bunch of key dating advice info, but he actually managed to control the interview and keep it on track. Which was amazing because usually David D. likes to take over the interview with his own esoteric and philosophical theories which usually takes away from the interview. But not this time...

In fact, there was a portion of the interview that forced me to pull over my truck and really listen to what Scot was saying about deserving what you want. The message hit home like a two-by-four cross the forehead.

After listening to his podcasts-which I highly recommend you do--and purchasing a few of his products, I realized that Scot McKay WAS different from the typical Seduction Community gurus, although still a part of it.

But now with The Leading Man Relationship Management System Scot is turning a corner. I'm not quite sure if he is trying to distance himself from the Seduction and Pickup Community, but...when I heard that he was coming out with a complete system for relationship management, my first thought was, “it’s about time!”

I mean, there's a TON of programs out there ALL trying to put a different twist on the classic how-to-pickup-women thing, but relationship management advice from a man who actually understands pickup and attraction--well that's definitely been lacking in the pickup community.

We all know that pickup isn’t all there is to being great with women. Far from it. Most men actually just want to have a great woman in their life long-term. Or maybe several of them. Even die-hard pickup artists feel this deep down, if they are strong enough to admit it.

But let's face it, anything with the word relationships in it comes off sounding like something Dr. Phil or Oprah would approve of. And that's the LAST thing any real pickup community certified dating guru wants to be associated with.

In other words...they are AFRAID to tackle the subject! They would rather continue to develop programs and systems for attracting women and getting laid. After all, SEX sells! So there's been a void...

But THAT'S where Scot McKay comes in.

You see, a while back he went through a nasty divorce and said “never again”. Since then, he has experienced a level of dating success that would make even some hardcore PUAs blush. In fact, after having dated up to sixteen women at once, he figured out he needed to have a real plan for managing his social life. His friendships, his career and even his health were suffering.

And eventually, having dated enough women to know what it was he wanted, he decided to build a future with a great woman. So he identified and selected that woman from many options. And now,  she’s by his side wherever he goes and they couldn’t be happier. She’s even the mother of Scot Jr. and his “partner in crime” as a “dating guru” in her own right.

If you haven’t guessed already, Scot McKay is the right guy to be teaching relationship management.

So with all that in mind, I checked out the Leading Man Member’s Area and found everything in good working order. All the audio programs are in MP3 format, with the eight core programs coming with full transcripts in PDF format.

By the way, I'd like to think that I had something to do with the PDF transcripts after mentioning the need for such a thing in a review I posted on a message board for one of Scot's other products, called Virtuosity.

Scot believes in keeping everything downloadable for instant access. That way there aren't any scratched discs or extended shipping times involved. Plus, Scot is well-known for making “surprise” additions to his value-packed products, which the Member’s Area concept supports beautifully.

It’s important to note that although The Leading Man has a “Member’s Area”, this really isn’t a “membership site” per se. You pay one time and your ticket is punched forever.

Anyway, getting back to the review, you'll find that leadership is a major theme in the program. As Scot puts it, “Show me a woman who ‘wears the pants’, and I’ll show you a bitter woman’. Even so, Scot has softened up a bit since he found his dream girl and it shows with ideas such as  earning a woman’s respect in order to have a fulfilling lifestyle.

Interestingly, McKay still believes in dating multiple women as a means of evaluating and selecting the one for you someday…whenever that “someday” feels right for each man as an individual.

So as expected, there are complete audio programs detailing how to run multiple long-term relationships and on how to identify, attract and build a life with the greatest woman you’ve ever met.

He’s also got a full program on “Core Relationship Management” that serves as a fast-paced introduction to the overall topic. From there, he gets into nitty-gritty stuff like, “How To Decode Women” that you'll find useful and interesting. Like most of the stuff Scot produces, there is absolutely zero-fluff here. I mean, even his free podcasts provide a bunch of value.

Moving on, Scot covers what to say to women in a variety of situations which is useful once you learn how to decode their words. Then, he includes full-length programs on such intriguing topics as, “Telecom Game”, “Character-Based Kino” and “Crisis Management”.

I was especially interested in his "Character-Based Kino" module as Kino is a huge componet of the pickup artist routine. By the way, in case you didn't know, Kino refers to touch. And I don't think I have to tell you how powerful touch can be with the opposite sex. In fact, one dating guru, Vin DiCarlo, teaches the use of Kino as a way to create rapid attraction from women, leading toward sex.

Well, Scot's version of Kino is obviously a bit different...at first. He starts off by blasting the typical pickup artist's view of Kino, gives a lecture about the folly of quick sex, and then ends up getting into the nuts and bolts of Character Based Kino. Ironically, he evenutally gets into stuff like making out, when it's ok to grab crotches, and getting buck naked together! He also refers to several techniques from Dating Guru David DeAngelo. Not Vin DiCarlo for sure, but not exactly chaste either. Careful, Kino is heavy stuff!

Pretty much, you are left with the distinct impression that every angle has been covered with the Leading Man Relationship Management program. And there are some really nice bonuses included, as we’ve come to expect from McKay. Notably, he somehow cajoled Alex Allman into letting him include the version of Revolutionary Sex for couples into the mix. Now Alex has pretty much set himself apart as the “go-to guy” for sex advice among guys these days, so the synergy there with The Leading Man system is powerful.

Overall, The Leading Man delivers the goods, but at $147 it might be a bit pricey. I suggest at least getting on his list as Scot sometimes offers substantial discounts on his products. For more on The Leading Man, including four videos that you can watch for free, check out Scot's The Leading Man Relationship Management System website.


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